Remember Ramadan Ramblings – Episode 3: Muharram – Our Fourth Chance
Yes, Ramadan was our 2nd chance and the first ten days of Dhul Hijjah was the 3rd.
Now, we have yet another chance: Muharram.
You might wonder why I keep pointing to specific months as being 3rd or 4th chances when, in reality, a person can make a fresh start from…NOW.
Yes, that’s true. However, the first 10 days of Dhul Hijjah and Muharram are what I call mini-goals and iman-boosting opportunities, because of their many virtues.
It is very difficult for a person to think about working hard for a lifetime. So we need to shorten that to working hard until the end of Ramadan, so that we can take it year by year. However, as Ramadan is still quite far away, we need to work towards another goal that is close by in order to keep ourselves motivated.
That’s what I’ve noticed about most people. They need deadlines. I’m like that too. I need a real tangible deadline so that I can get the adrenaline going.
So, let’s give ourselves yet another deadline to improve: Muharram.
And we’ll just keep doing this until Ramadan comes, insha-Allah.
Remember: The only way to actually “remember” Ramadan is to become our “Ramadan selves” and better in all the months.
PS. Question to all of you: Are you still asking Allah to accept your Ramadan? If not, then why not? The early generations did this for 6 months after Ramadan!