What to do if your Ramadan preparation hasn’t been going well…
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
Bad Ramadan Prep so far? Here’s what you could do:
1) Don’t panic.
Look at the bright side: you still have over a month to repair the damage. A month is a long time.
2) Don’t give up.
That might sound weird but many people do tend to mentally give up on having a great Ramadan just because they weren’t well-prepared for it.
3) Don’t wait for the next Ramadan.
This one might also sound weird but I know that I used to go through this in the past.
The Ramadan Prep and the first few weeks of Ramadan would not be great so I would just imagine that next year’s Ramadan would be the Awesome Ramadan.
However, a few Ramadans ago, I had a dreadful first 2 weeks due to being ill. I spent most of the time sleeping.
Ironically, the last ten days of that Ramadan were probably my best ever. That made me realise that the way you end Ramadan is more important than the way you begin it.
So, even if your preparation is going bad, or if you aren’t doing well in the first 2-3 weeks of Ramadan, DO NOT GIVE UP.
Just keep going until Shawwal.
What if the entire Ramadan was dreadful?
Well, assuming you’re still alive at the end of it, could you please enlighten me as to what would stop you from having a great Shawwal? Allah is not just the Lord of Ramadan, but rather the Lord of the Worlds.
This might seem like an incredibly strange post. However, I thought it was necessary because I know that there might be people out there who would make the same mistake that I made years ago and give up because they couldn’t have their ideal Ramadan.
You know, we’ll never have that ideal Ramadan but that shouldn’t stop us from trying to get as close as we can to the dream.