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July 1, 2012

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Seriously Short Reminder No. 33: Remember that you need to reply to it…

by Umm Muawiyah

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

Assalamu Alaikum.

[Note #1: So I was Internetless for 5 days. The last time that I sat that long in front of a PC without the Internet was….the 90s when the Internet first came out. I think I need to take more breaks away from this thing…]

[Note #2: Okay, it seems that most of you voted for the Lord of the Worlds series for Ramadan. If anyone wants one of the other two series mentioned, then please do say so ASAP. I’ll decide at the end of this week, insha-Allah.]

Reply to what, you ask?

Reply to the salaam (greeting of peace, of course).

The virtues of initiating the salaam (i.e. saying Assalamu Alaikum) are many and these are quite well-known, alhamdulillah. [This article states that it is a recommendation whereas this one states that it is an obligation.]

However, many people seem to be unaware of the importance of replying to the salaam.

Allah says:

وَإِذَا حُيِّيتُم بِتَحِيَّةٍ فَحَيُّوا بِأَحْسَنَ مِنْهَا أَوْ رُ‌دُّوهَا ۗ إِنَّ اللَّـهَ كَانَ عَلَىٰ كُلِّ شَيْءٍ حَسِيبًا

“When you are greeted with a greeting, greet in return with what is better than it, or (at least) return it equally. Certainly, Allah is Ever a Careful Account Taker of all things.” [Surah An-Nisa (4) : 86]

Imam Ibn Kathir (rahimahullah) says in his tafsir (explanation) of this ayah (verse): “Therefore, the better Salam is recommended, while returning it equally is an obligation.”

So, when a Muslim greets us with “Assalamu Alaikum”, we are obliged to reply to it with “Wa Alaikum Assalam” and encouraged to add “Wa Rahmathullahi” or “Wa Ramathullahi Wa Barakathuh”.

If a Muslim greets us with “Assalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmathullah” we are obliged to reply with “Wa Alaikum Assalam Wa Rahmathullah” and encouraged to add “Wa Barakthuh”.

If a Muslim greets us with “Assalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmathullahi Wa Barakathuh”, we are obliged to reply with “Wa Alaikum Assalam Wa Rahmathullahi Wa Barakathuh”.

It seems that in today’s fast-paced twitter-oriented blackberry-addicted world, people have forgotten this act completely.

Brothers and sisters, these might seem like little things but these little things add up to a lot. Not replying to the salaam is a sin (even a delayed reply is a sin) so if we keep doing this with everything (whether it be email, facebook, twitter, blog posts, live conversations, etc), the sins will keep piling up.

However, if we reply properly, then we’ll be increasing in good deeds.

So please, when someone sends you an email that starts with “Assalamu Alaikum”, start your reply with “Wa Alaikum Assalam”. And if you are replying to an online article that starts with “Assalamu Alaikum,” start your reply with “Wa Alaikum Assalam.” [Please don’t say “wasak” or something like that. Type the whole thing out!]

Please don’t think that this is something that will waste your time, rather this will put more barakah (blessings) in your time – just like everything else that the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) came with.

So…please remember to reply to the salaam.

PS. That includes any comments that are submitted to this blog. [Although I think you might have figured out that part already…]

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4 Comments Post a comment
  1. Naz
    Jul 1 2012

    Asslamun alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh…can i use selection of this post in facebook….

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    • Umm Muawiyah
      Jul 2 2012

      Wa Alaikum Assalam Wa Rahmathullahi Wa Barakathuh Sister.

      Well, if by “selection”, you mean copying part of the post, then no, I don’t permit that.

      You’d have to copy the whole post or copy the part that you want and then link to the rest of the post (whilst making it clear that what you’ve posted is a selection not the whole thing).

      Baarakallahu feek.

      Reply
  2. Umm Zakariyya
    Jul 1 2012

    Wa ‘alaykumu-s-salaamu wa rahmatullaahi wa barakaatuh.

    It’s good that you covered this topic. Baaraka Allaahu feeki. It brings to mind a question, if you don’t mind my asking. How about when it comes to a blog? If one is subscribed to a blog like the Greatest Month for instance, and maa-shaa’a Allaah each entry begins with the salaam; if one doesn’t have a comment to post, is one obliged to reply to the salaam on the blog?

    Jazaaki Allaahu khayra.

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  3. Maryam
    Jul 1 2012

    wa alaikum asalaam,
    subhanAllah! how easily we forget something like this, inshaAllah now that i know i will try to implement it, although sister i have a doubt, may i please ask you?
    sister does that mean that i must reply with a salaam , to u in this post for example( because u said salaam in the beginning), even if i werent to write a comment?

    may Allah reward you

    Reply

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