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15
Jul

What types of ibaadah (worship) can one do in Ramadan?

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

Assalamu Alaikum.

Firstly, one can practice just about all the deeds that one does in Ramadan outside of it, so there’s no reason to limit ibaadah to Ramadan.

Secondly, we need to understand what ibaadah is.

When we refer to “ibaadah”, it means everything that Allah loves and is pleased with. It could refer to an action of the heart, the tongue or the limbs. [Fearing Allah is an example of an action of the heart.]

Here’s an article which explains the definition of ibaadah in more detail.

Our problem is that we confine ibaadah to just a few things, and that shouldn’t be the case. Any lawful (halal) act can be turned into an act of worship with the proper intention.

Thirdly, so what can we do in Ramadan?

a) Do the basic acts of ibaadah (prayer, fasting, etc) properly.

You know, we always think in terms of quantity. Let’s first try to work on the quality. That should keep us busy for a while.

b) Add the other acts that are easy for us.

Is giving charity is easy for you? Then do it.

Is reciting the Quran easy for you? Then do it.

Is doing dawah easy for you? Then do it.

Is keep good relations with your family and neighbours easy for you? Then do it.

Is feeding orphans easy for you? Then do it.

Is making iftar for the poor easy for you? Then do it.

c) Try to improve in those acts which we fall short in.

Can’t stop snarling at your mom-in-law? Hey, Ramadan is a good time to change that.

d) Try to think about the proper deed to be done in every situation.

For example, you’re late for taraweeh. Whilst rushing to the masjid, somebody in front of you slips and falls.

Do you keep rushing to the masjid? NO! Stop and help that person. That’s the right thing to do at this time. It’s okay if you’re late for taraweeh.

Another example: Suppose you’re breaking your fast in the masjid. Do you sit and recite Quran whilst some other brothers/sisters serve the food and also end up cleaning the whole mess?

No! Get up and ask them if they need any help with the serving or with the cleaning.

Another example: Your neighbour walks into the elevator with you (let’s assume that both of you are of the same gender).

Do you stare coldly at this person or try to be cordial given the fact that they have rights over you? Be cordial and ask them how they are. You might think of this as useless talk but it isn’t if you talk about halal things and you do it with the intention of keeping in touch with your neighbour.

Remember the best thing to do at a give time is the one that pleases Allah the most.

How would we know what pleases Allah the most? Well, we need to seek knowledge. That’s what knowledge ultimately is: knowing how best to worship Allah at a given time.

e) Leave evil deeds.

You know why? Because that’s also an act of ibaadah.

A few points to keep in mind:

a) Don’t compare yourself to anybody else.

If you have to compare yourself to someone who you feel is doing more than you, then please do it to motivate yourself and not to demotivate yourself.

b) Don’t follow those famous Ramadan planners.

Sorry, I can’t stand those. They make me feel depressed.

They have a long list of all the good deeds to be done in one day and after you toil away trying to do each one, you check the list and find that you still have half the list left!

Don’t get me wrong. Some of them are useful but not as your main Ramadan planner. They’re just good for some ideas on what types of ibaadah that you could do.

I think what would be better than this, is for each of us to sit down and plan what deeds we can do during Ramadan. We could add the obligatory, then the voluntary that we are good at and then the other deeds which we need to improve upon. At least this way, we won’t feel like such losers.

Another reason that I don’t like those planners is that worship then becomes a numerical thing rather than a spiritual thing.

c) The more that you do outside Ramadan, the easier it is to do more in Ramadan.

You know why? Because your soul, body and mind are already used to doing these things.

When you dump things on them out of nowhere (like in the first few days), they get exhausted because they aren’t used to doing all these things.

d) Strive to purify your intention.

It’s the most difficult thing to do yet it is the most important one of them all.

It’s possible that someone who does a little deed with a pure intention (i.e. to please Allah alone) might get more reward than the one who does a whole lot of deeds but with an intention that is not very pure.

e) Try, try and keep trying.

Striving to do ibaadah is itself an ibaadah, so don’t give up, because we don’t fail when we keep trying.

We only fail when we give up.

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18
Jan

What Umm Abdillah misses about Ramadan…

Assalamu Alaikum.

Remember when I asked you what YOU missed about Ramadan?

Well, about 6 sisters replied, alhamdulillah.

I liked Sister Umm Abdillah’s reply a lot. It was a good reminder for me so I decided to post it so that everyone could read it.

[I took her permission to post it and I edited it slightly (grammar and spelling).]

So here goes:

“I miss the feeling of getting higher rewards for our good deeds and the wish for giving more sadaqah (charity) and reciting more Quran.

I miss searching for Laylatul Qadr by doing more qiyam (night prayers) in the last 10 nights.

I miss everyone getting together due to the earlier Ramadan timings.*

[*Umm Muawiyah says: In the UAE (like many other Muslim countries), we have shorter work and school timings in Ramadan, alhamdulillah.]

I miss everyone listening out for the Maghrib adhan.

I miss sending and receiving iftar plates full of food.

Although I miss Ramadan a lot, writing this comment and reading other people’s comments made me realise that we could still be doing all those things and continue to get that blessed feeling.

Insha Allah, we should try to prepare for the next Ramadan by doing some of those lovely “Ramadan” things if we really did miss them so much. There’s nothing stopping us from doing some of those things now!

This question made me think of reinstating some of those things insha Allah!

How quickly we forget and get deceived by Shaytan. We don’t have to wait for Ramadan to do good deeds, so I’d urge everyone reading this to pick some or even one of their usual Ramadan habits and start doing it again.”

As the sister asked, what is stopping us from doing those things that we miss?

That’s something that each of us needs to ponder over….

And to Sister Umm Abdillah: Jazakillahu kheira for the great advice.