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Posts tagged ‘Mistakes in Ramadan’

16
Jun

5 things that we can (and should) do in Ramadan…

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

Assalamu Alaikum.

I was thinking about the areas that we mess up in the most during this great month. What are the things that we could (and should) do that would help us improve our Ramadan?

Well:

1) We can (and should) sleep less.

Yes, yes, I know. You might say: “Hey most of us sleep less during this month!”

I beg to differ. I think that people snooze more in this month (or at least that’s what the people in this part of the world do) than they do outside of it.

This is NOT the month of “catching up on our sleep”.

2) We can (and should) stop wasting our time with useless activities, and instead focus on our ibaadah (worship).

Want to surf the Internet? Well, do it after Ramadan.

Part of the reason that we waste our time is that we have deceived ourselves into thinking that fasting is only achieved by staying hungry and as we are staying hungry, we are in a state of worship.

Well, no, there’s much more to fasting than just starving.

3) We can (and should) eat  healthy food.

Yes, we can. Really.

Just stand in front of the mirror and repeat it a hundred times. Mass repetition is known to help the brain accept an idea, no matter how impossible it sounds.

[Oh and we can (and should) eat less as well. That would really end many a woman’s kitchen nightmares….]

4) We can (and should) stop fighting with each other in the masjid.

Completely silly question: Is there any particular reason that we all single out Ramadan for masjid fights……..?

5) We can (and should) take it hour by hour and not think too far ahead.

One of the main reasons that many of us flunk in Ramadan is that we go all out in the first few days and then fizzle out early. Instead, we need to take things step by step.

Question to all of you (if you’re still around. Everyone seems to have disappeared?): What other things are there that we can (and should) do in order to have a great Ramadan?

31
Jul

ARTICLE: COMMON MISTAKES DURING RAMADAN

Assalamu Alaikum.

Yes, another “common mistakes article”. We seem to have a lot of these, don’t we?

And what happens? We still continue to make these same mistakes!

Why does that happen, you ask? Well, I’m not sure but if I had to guess, I would say:

1) We read these articles assuming that other people make these mistakes, thereby completely forgetting to take ourselves into account.

2) We read it and realise that we make the same mistakes. However, we forget this when the situation arises, leading us to make that mistake.

What can we do?

Well, I had written a post about a Ramadan Journal. We can summarise these lists (we can exclude those that we definitely never do) and write them down in that journal. After this, all we need to do is go over the summaries every few days in Ramadan. I think we could also do this for all the  Ramadan articles and lectures.

So, we can all start with the following article:

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24
Jul

LECTURE: RAMADAN RERUNS

Assalamu Alaikum.

Okay, this one isn’t a lecture either. It’s a Baba Ali video.

The brother makes some excellent points in it (although for us here in the Emirates and in other Muslim countries, the moon sighting wars don’t exist, alhamdulillah).

PS. The “Imam racing through Taraweeh leaving followers unable to understand the recitation” scenario happened to me once. It was in university. He went so fast that I had no clue what he was saying!

24
Jul

LECTURE: TOP TEN BAD HABITS DURING RAMADAN

Assalamu Alaikum.

Okay, this isn’t a lecture. It’s just a short video which hits the nail right on the head.

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http://livinghalal.blogspot.com/2006/09/top-10-bad-habits-during-ramadan.html#links

Number 10
Eating too fast and too much at iftar

Number 9
Driving recklessly to the masjid and blocking cars in the parking lot

Number 8
Getting angry quickly toward the end of the day or end of the month

Number 7
Being generous to strangers but not even talking to relatives and in-laws

Number 6
Rushing through taraweeh just to complete the Qur’an in 30 days

Number 5
Fasting just to feel hungry, without involving your mind and heart

Number 4
Fasting from food only but indulging in haram activities

Number 3
Fasting by day and sinning by night

Number 2
Observing Ramadan as a cultural festival without Islamic knowledge

Number 1
Fasting but not praying

* May Allah reward all those who contributed to this top-10 project. Oh, not contributing by practicing bad habits, but participated in brainstorming this list or recording it…

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Insha-Allah, I’ll write more in the future about Habit No. 1, because it is a serious mistake.